How I Wake Up On Time

For as long as I can remember, I've always had a hard time waking up in the morning. Being a self-employed web developer didn't help the situation because there weren't really any penalties for not getting up at a specific time (I wasn't going to get fired because I wasn't at work on time).

Getting up on time is something I've been trying to fix in my own life for a long time (measured in years). I tried everything from placing multiple alarms around the room to trying to exercise excessively the night before to make sure I would be tired before I went to bed. Everything I tried was never successful for any signifcant period of time. It might work for a few days but it would eventually fail.

One night, I decided enough was enough (I'd decided that many times before without results) and decided I needed an accountability partner to hold me accountable. I got in touch with my brother to see if he could call me in the morning to make sure I was awake if he didn't get a text message from me by a certain time. I noticed that having accountability definitely helped me get up on time for about a week (which was major progress), but eventually it failed when I got to a point where I would answer his phone call and then immediately go back to sleep.

I realized that the accountability helped but I needed something to make sure I was awake without having to have him call me each morning. I also realized that the first few minutes of waking up were crucial. If I didn't have a specific plan, I would typically crawl right back into bed. It was almost as if what I did in the first minute of waking up would actually determine whether or not I would get up. If I told myself that I was just going to lie down for 5 minutes, that would actually mean I was going to fall back asleep for 2-3 hours and I would vaguelly recall waking up in the first place. If I could get myself to actually do something in that first minute, I was more likely to stay awake.

I was just learning about programming phone systems, so I decided to create a system that would read me step-by-step instructions over the phone that I would have to press a button to confirm that I had completed the step. For example, the first system I created used instructions like these:

  1. Good morning! You have 30 seconds to get out of bed and press one.
  2. Glad to see you are up. Now you have one minute to turn on the lights and press 2.
  3. Great! Now you have one minute to walk to the bathroom, begin the shaving process, and press 3.
  4. Glad to see you are up! Goodbye.

I figured if I could make it to the last step, then there was a pretty good chance that I wouldn't try to crawl back into bed for 5 minutes. I designed the system so that if I didn't answer the phone, pressed the wrong number, or didn't respond to a step in the allotted time, then the system would send my brother a text message letting him know that I did not get up.

The amazing thing for me is that the system worked! At the time of this writing, I've been using the system for over a month and I've gotten up each morning at the time of the wakeup call. I had been trying to fix my sleeping habits for years and I finally fixed my sleeping habits with a simple wakeup call system that reads you instructions over the phone and notifies an accountability partner if you don't complete the step-by-step instructions.

I realized that this was a system that could help others so I took my system that was basically some programming code that I wrote that I would manually update and developed the WakeupQ.com website. The system costs $15 for a month of wakeup calls. I hope that you find WakeupQ.com as valuable as it has been for me.

If you have any feedback, suggestions, or questions, please don't hesitate to send a message on the contact page.

- Anthony Graddy